In 2019, I was planning a trip to West Plains, Missouri to visit family and friends. I spent many summers and the start of deer seasons at my grandparents home outside of West Plains when I was young. I have special memories of time spent there. Each summer I was allowed to go into town and shop at the most amazing hardware store. They had kitten figurines and I was allowed to purchase one each summer. It was agony trying to decide which one should come home with me.
But, back pain and subsequent surgery postponed that trip in 2019. In 2020, COVID and quarantines postponed the trip once again. Now, should I make the trip, I won’t be able to sit and chat with my Aunt Linda. Yesterday, she went home to be with the Lord. I tear up every time I think of my missed opportunity, but I’m thankful for our messaging and email time from the past years.
Although I have not heard her voice in a long time, I can still hear her laugh. And that bit of southern accent that tinged her words. She sounds a bit like my granny did with that drawl. Aunt Linda is probably the aunt I know the best from my dad’s side of the family. The story has been told that Dad was allowed to help name Linda Lee and that my name is a combination of his two younger sisters, Linda and Nora Henrietta. I’ve treasured that thought all my life.
My parents often told me that I looked like Aunt Linda, especially when I didn’t get my way and, instead of arguing, I’d flop down on the couch, cross my arms and pout. I’d always hear, “Well, Linda . . .”
When I was five, my family, with Grandma and Grampa, followed Uncle Ken and Aunt Linda and baby Amy from the Ozarks to Coronado Island in California, driving Route 66. Uncle Ken was in the Navy and we were able to spend a week with them. All of us. In a tiny one bedroom apartment. We were a very close family. I remember having my first taco from Jack-in-the-Box that week.
A few years later, Uncle Ken was stationed in Jacksonville, Florida. We again took our family vacation to visit them. I remember my cousin Kenny riding his tricycle into the cement block house again and again. I remember Uncle Ken arriving home from work in his white uniform. He was tall, thin, and quiet. I loved his smile. Aunt Linda cooked meals, took us shopping, to the beach, talked and laughed, and loved having family visit. (The ocean turned my pink swimsuit purple, for which I was grateful.)
The next move took them to Greece; however, my excitement was in vain, because Dad could not drive to Greece and we stayed home. Recently, I found several letters that Linda had written my parents during her time there. It seemed like she was lonely, but tried to fill her time with taking care of her home and family and writing letters to loved ones. She wrote those letters sharing her heart.
When they returned to the States, their next assignment was in Corpus Christi, Texas. The family wasn’t able to visit but on a mission trip to Mexico, I was able to stop and see them for a night. They welcomed us with joy, even though they did not know the others on the trip.
Finally, retirement from the Navy meant they could go home to West Plains. They built a home near her mom and dad, continued to raise their family, and opened their home to family and friends whenever possible. I have wonderful memories of sitting with the Presley clan in her living room, sharing memories and trying to outdo each other with our hilarious stories.
My dad loved to tease Aunt Linda and she often returned the laughter and pulled practical jokes on him as well. Her only flaw was that she was a Green Bay Packers fan. But we loved her enough to overlook it. She spent many years working on the family genealogy for which we are all thankful! She loved her family. We love her.
How thankful to know that she is in heaven because she placed her faith in the finished work of Jesus Christ on the cross. Her faith carried her through many adventures in her life, comforted her as she lost members of her family, and kept her joyful even through the struggles.
Enjoy the reunion in heaven, Aunt Linda.